The blind date and the girl I flew to another city for - part four - the finale

The blind date and the girl I flew to another city for - part four - the finale

Note: This is the final post in this story. You will want to read 1-3 before you read this.

We drove into central Nelson and found an awesome café full of old farming and settler type things e.g syths, old cart wheels etc. Finding the couches were all taken for the moment, we setup shop at a table and waited until a couple that looked like they were about move finally left. I think we hung out at the café for about an hour.

When it was nearing 5:30pm we left the café and headed to ‘The Boatshed’ down at the waterfront. It was a classy joint she picked. It was one of the nicest restaurants I’ve been in for a while. We order a bottle of Pinot Noir and laughed most of the night, and had a couple of good deep-ish conversations as well. Towards the end of the dinner fireworks started out on the harbour. So we had dinner and a show. The fireworks were a little average but it was still great to be in a prime position to see them. Dessert followed the fireworks. We had planned to go back to my cousin’s place for Lemon Meringue pie cooked by my Granny so we didn’t want to spoil that by having lots of desert at the restaurant. We ordered a sticky date pudding for the two of us.

While she went to the bathroom, I took the opportunity to pay for the meal. When she came back, we finished the pudding and headed out for a short walk along the water front. It was fairly cold so we didn’t walk for long.

The night was drawing to a close and it was time to head back to have more pudding and coffee with the cousins and Granny. I must say, this girl was brave for coming along. Who would want to meet a guys cousins and Granny on a second date? That’s a little crazy, but then again it was a crazy adventure the whole way along so I’m not really surprised.

Gran’s Lemon Meringue pie was brilliant as always. We had a few laughs with the family and the night was over. I walked her to the car, gave her a hug goodbye, and let her go on her way. We agreed to stay in touch, and with that my two day whirlwind trip to take a girl I had never meet out on a date was over.

Now the part you probably want to know - what has happened since? The short answer is nothing. I got an email that Tuesday saying ‘lets just be friends’ and that is ok with me. She is a lovely girl and lives far away. She has also just come out of a relationship and isn’t interested in anything more. That's ok with me. These things rarely end up the way we think.

At the end of the day, I was taking an opportunity to have an adventure. I had a great time. She was absolutely lovely. I’m very lucky to have been given the opportunity to take her out.

Thank you to the young miss that let me have a couple of her evenings - you were a lot of fun.

6 comments (Add your own)

1. Dave wrote:
Awww.. how sweet..

Sat, July 31, 2010 @ 5:09 PM

2. FaerySarah wrote:
ya know what, this is so cool - and if it had worked out like a fairy tale (cos seriously this should be made into a movie - Patrick Dempsey can play you) what a story for the grandkids! haha

Sat, July 31, 2010 @ 7:07 PM

3. Hayden Sanders wrote:
Sarah - I'd have to get some grandkids first to tell them, but yes it does make a cool story

Sun, August 1, 2010 @ 12:06 PM

4. Desiree Foster wrote:
That was a great story! I'm so very glad you had a great time. But should fly on over to Dallas, TX, US and take out my devine friend. You two would have a BLAST! ;)

Tue, August 3, 2010 @ 7:54 AM

5. christian orth wrote:
where did you get that hat my friend has one he got it in china as i am sure you did is there a website or something i can go to to get that hat i want one.

Mon, December 13, 2010 @ 6:56 AM

6. Rocky wrote:
Nice..that you shared your date incident. I accidently stumbled on this blog and got glued in to read this date part.

To the poster above, (Christian Orth) can get such hats from
I bought one from them so can recommend. I am not sure where Hayden got from.

Fri, June 8, 2012 @ 6:47 PM

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